Fostering your outer hotness

Have you thought about what it would look like for you to be labeled 'hot'? Has someone called you that? How did it make you feel? Why do you think you were given that label?
Obviously, people have different definitions of what it means to be hot. We all have certain characteristics and qualities that we are attracted to, and they could have more to do with personality in the long run, but there are certain males and females that others are drawn to, that everyone either wants to date or at least be around.
You can be hot based on a combination of inward and outward qualities, but ask yourself these questions: Is the way I carry myself on the outside reveal how I feel about myself on the inside?
Do you dress so you feel more feminine, attractive, intelligent? When we feel good about our bodies, we carry ourselves more upright, more aware. When we have confidence in who we are, we can look others in the eye and be focused on them, not ourselves. Do you know how to dress for your body type? Do you draw eyes to your overall put togetherness, or to your breasts, your figure, or where do you normally put the emphasis?
Have you thought about the message you are sending in the clothes you wear? This counts as much for the covered-up-all-everything as for the cleavage-oriented woman!
I've worked with many girls over the years and sometimes the prettiest girls have the hardest time knowing how to carry themselves. And the ones that have challenges often focus on bringing attention in ways that actually reverses any hotness they had--too much make up, too much cleavage, too tight in the pants to be attractive.
So as you are fostering your outer hotness, think of how you see yourself, and what you want the definition of 'hot' to be if someone labeled you that.